Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Let It Be

A good leader is the one
Who doesn’t lead at all.
He inspires followership.

A good follower is the one
Who doesn’t follow at all.
He merges with the flow.

A good teacher is the one
Who doesn’t teach at all.
He allows learning to reveal itself.

A good coach is the one
Who doesn’t coach at all.
He alters the game occurence.

A good competitor is the one
Who doesn’t compete at all.
He differentiates and positions.

A good worker is the one
Who doesn’t work at all.
He enjoys his vocation.

A good actor is the one
Who doesn’t act at all.
He makes the character manifest.

And often we find that in overkill
We poison the land that we so zealously till.

Pause a little, listen around
For nature’s whispers, life’s little sounds.

Life’s book is full of oxymoron
What hurts as noise is also a song.

And truth is sitting elsewhere unseen
Smiling silently at passion’s smoke screen…

Trans Conscient Learning

Trans Conscient Learning (TCL) is a unique approach to teaching, training and education which causes a dramatic and sustainable shift in people. “Conscient” is a term combining the spirit of “Conscious” and “Sentient”. The TCL method goes beyond conscious thought and subconscious programming, and is one of the most powerful and effective ways to create a lasting shift in people, groups and organizations.

THE TCL FACILITATOR
(Excerpts from a talk by Mr. Nitin P Khanna to a group of TCL facilitators. February 2004.)

… We are all knowledgeable people. Because that is what, somewhere deep within ourselves we believe in. And, may be, rightly so. We have worked hard and have acquired all that knowledge through experience, application, experimentation and study. 

But with knowledge comes pride. Pride in our own definition of who we are.  Our knowledge is a good ego massage. Indeed, often it is the knowledge we possess, the “known” that we have – which is the source of our ego and identity in the first place.

Knowledge is also security. A nice cocoon within which we can be comfortable in being who we are and be protected from the unsuspected dangers of the unfamiliar.

Nothing wrong or right about it. It’s just the way we are all made as human beings. However, as a TCL facilitator, you are someone who chooses not to operate out of knowledge while, at the same time, constantly building the reservoir of knowledge.

A TCL facilitator operates from the space of love, commitment and care rather than a space of knowledge and pride. He chooses to be driven by people he is working with – their mental and emotional states. He is not occupied by what he has to give. His only commitment is how people get what they need to get at that point in time.

He is not there to prove a point. His only purpose is to truly serve. He taps his own reservoirs of knowledge only if it is needed and always for the purpose of serving – nothing else. For him, knowledge is an invaluable slave but a hopeless master. And so you will often find him transcending his own knowledge barriers and dancing freely in the space of unknown and unfamiliar – the dance of creation which is the source of his work.

At this stage he has transcended the trappings of his own ego and identity.  He soars freely and is somehow connected to bigger sources of knowledge and inspiration which are otherwise unavailable to him. It is in this space that the magic happens.

I am sure you all have experienced this to varying degrees in the course of your work. I have myself had many wonderful experiences and each of those experiences have, some way or the other, contributed to my own growth. I have experienced a few things whenever I am in this state –
  1. Assumptions and judgments are automatically kept aside. All conscious thought is kept aside and I allow my deep subconscious to manifest.
  2. I say and do whatever emerges spontaneously from deep within me.
  3. There is no stiffness, no fear, no ‘performance anxiety’. I can truly play to the hilt and have lot of fun.
  4. Everything is allowed to flow in the trust that whatever comes up is OK. Intuition can truly function now.
  5. I am very comfortable with my body. Physically I can do much more than I thought myself capable of.
  6. I am very comfortable with my feelings and emotions. I can express myself 100% effortlessly.
  7. My breathing is deep and regular and sometimes I find myself in an almost meditative state.
  8. My attention is 100% focused.
At times, I feel like a master conduit through which the group is getting connected through a bigger source somewhere. A source that is neither understood by me nor do I feel any need to understand it. I feel the source as grace.

When you express from your subconscious, it is often not possible for others to hold on to their own conscious makeup for too long and soon they also start operating from their deeper being … without fear and inhibitions… there is an instant connection between all the subconscious in that space which resonates together to increase the overall energy of the group…

This phenomenon (perhaps what Jung calls counter transference) is the very source which creates the context or space for any meaningful work to happen. And once that space is established and you are able to hold that context, the content, whatever it may be, automatically becomes immensely powerful.

It is in this space that the growth and development of the participants as well as the facilitator is inevitable.

Therefore, to my mind, the only objective and obligation of a teacher should be to create this space – sourcing it out of himself; and learning to be a TCL facilitator is nothing but to diligently work out the ability to do so…anytime, at will.

The 9 Growth Sutras

The “I” Block
Who we are is the biggest block in the path of who we can be

Limits of Cognition
Growth is impossible within the boundaries of our knowledge

Fear and Identity
Our attachment to what we know is a coverup for our fears

Source of Action
Driver to growth is an unreasonable, impossible, dangerous and stupid action

Mirror of Reality
Who we are is what we see – in family, organization, society or life

Change is Nothing
Our need to change is a measure of our own fixations

Survive – Thrive – Compete
The extent to which our competition causes worry for us is a direct measure of our own incompetitiveness or low self-esteem.

Beyond Me
Non linear growth happens within a context beyond I, me and mine.

Intentions – Stop That Noise
I am, I intend, I act. Everything else is an unproductive noise in the head.

Universal Laws of Karma

“What you are is what you have been. What you will be is what you do now." - Buddha

“If you want to know your past life, look into your present condition. If you want to know your future life, look at your present actions.” - Padmasambhava

The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying
By SOGYAL RINPOCHE

Whence :
  • If your present actions come from your present condition, your future will be same (may be slightly altered or modified version) as your past – Probable and almost certain future !
  • If you don’t want your present actions to come from your present condition, drop your attachment to what you know (your story) as that is what your present condition is.
  • If present actions don’t come from present condition, then they have to be without reason and motive and may as well look impossible and even stupid - as all reasons and motives / boundaries of what is possible and acceptable are defined by present condition. Be unreasonable, impossible and stupid!
  • Once you have dropped your present condition, your actions – unreasonable by definition – will create a new future for you. Conversely, you may invent any future for your life but be forewarned that the present actions that will take you to that future must be / must seem to be unreasonable, impossible and stupid - by definition. 

And of course, you can choose to forever stand in the present, devoid of any condition (having dropped your past) – the nothing, shunya, the realm of infinite possibilities, the state of infinite potency – the Brahman, Atman, Nirvana, Moksha, Liberation, Salvation, Tao, Nishkam Karma, all rolled into ONE !

Or you can create out of this state of infinite potency by crossing over the language threshold – OM, AMEN, WORD, HU, KALMA

Leadership Snippets

Leadership is not a thing or a trait. It is the all-encompassing agency of achievement – individual or collective.

The three necessary and sufficient conditions of leadership – Vision, Transformation, Action.

Leadership is the art of translating a huge and excellent idea to an average person’s comprehension and subscription.

Leaders don’t create followers. They create leaders. Successful people have fans and followers.

Leadership is a subscription game. The more people subscribe to your ideas and actions, the bigger leader you are. Ditto for success!

All leaders are successful in their own ways. Not vice-versa, though!


If you go near a person, he’ll come far with you.